Looking Ahead

     There is no question that 2020 has been a difficult year. We have seen way too many deaths that should have been avoidable, along with all the economic disruption caused both by the virus itself and our attempts to control it (which might have been more successful had more supposed adults done as public health experts asked). Schools closed, and parents not trained as teachers suddenly had to oversee online education for kids who were missing their friends and not wanting to sit in front of a screen (a natural and healthy reaction, let me add). The natural world gave us wildfires, hurricanes, and murder hornets. The US had an election that should have ended eight weeks ago. (I am hoping that four-year presidential campaigns and unending elections do not become the norm.) Mental health hotlines have been flooded with calls.

    But for introverts who managed to stay healthy, 2020 has not been so bad. Sitting in one's favorite chair with a book became a perfectly respectable semi-activity. Taking long walks alone became normal. Puttering around the house or in our gardens instead of socializing became a reasonable choice. Indeed, avoiding social events became a civic virtue, not the sign of depression that many extroverts seem to assume it is. (Not to be too critical of my extrovert friends, but in my experience most extroverts seem unable to understand that some people find their energy depleted by too much time spent in the company of humans.) Articles on how to enjoy time alone proliferated.

    Yes, 2020 was a good year for introverts.

    But now, the vaccine rollout has begun, and we can hope that infection and death rates from the novel coronavirus will begin to decline. This is absolutely a good thing. By this time next year, the world may have returned to “normal.” This is going to be a serious adjustment for some of us.

    It is likely that people will want to make up for lost time, so there will be an upsurge in parties. Gaggles of humans will become commonplace again, and extroverts will want to see all the people from whom they have been separated for the duration of the pandemic. We will all be receiving lots of invitations from people we like. Bars and restaurants will be packed, making a quiet meal or drink with friends impossible in any public place. Every weekend in any month of remotely decent weather will have its festival, with every civic-minded person expected to come out in support of whatever-it-is (and all our civic organizations need our support, so I get it). Spending significant chunks of time with humans will be expected.

    Extroverts, please be considerate of your introvert friends. After so many months of blessed quiet, we will not be okay.

Alone but not lonely in Cozumel

An optimized life (feline version)

         The last week of the year seems to bring lots of year-end and New Year's resolution-type advice. Much of it seems to concern ways to optimize one's life. An optimized life seems to involve increasing the efficiency with which daily tasks are performed so that more can be accomplished while also pondering questions like "Do I have a sense of direction for my life?" and "Do I know what my purpose is?" It also seems to involve a daily schedule that begins with yoga or running at 6:00 AM and gives each hour its assigned task. 

     I fear my life was never optimized, and, four years into retirement, I suspect it is not likely to be. This situation could be cause for angst, but during the pandemic, I have spent more time with cats than with humans. Cats, at least our three, do not appear to be Pondering The Meaning of Life or seeking ways to accomplish more in any given twenty-four-hour period--or at least, not very often. Mittsy, the polydactyl adopted from a shelter in 2006, does occasionally appear to be Thinking Deep Thoughts.

    However, this sort of pondering is not typical. A favorite activity in warm weather is hanging out on her cat tree on the screened porch, watching the bird feeder. These days, she demands to go onto the porch, then approximately two and half minutes later demands to come in, then in an hour or so. . . but those who live with cats may have seen this behavior.

    Another of Mittsy's favorite activities is killing the cat toys, announcing at great volume that she has done so, and bringing the hunting trophies to The Human as gifts. Particular favorites are the fuzzy dice intended by a nephew as decorations for a classic car he was restoring but stolen off the coffee table by the feline who proceeded to attack them with great ferocity.

    As she has aged, however, Mittsy's favorite pastime appears to be napping, particularly if a sunbeam can be found. Today, she and Feraldine found good spots on a sofa (covered as protection against hairballs in yet another example of The Human's non-optimized life).

    Poor Feraldine, adopted as a backyard stray at approximately six months of age, almost certainly does not have an optimized life. We seem to have missed her socialization window, with the result that, after thirteen years in the house, she remains aware of herself as potential prey and not particularly trusting of humans or other living things (with the exception of Mittsy). She has, however, discovered that Humans are the source of Feline Greenies and can be trusted for occasional head rubs. She is also fond of naps in sunbeams.

    Mirabel, at seventeen the eldest of our girls, may be the most optimized. Certainly, she is the most active, getting her early exercise by walking on The Human until verticality is achieved and canned cat food is provided. She also spends the most time in the presence of human knowledge, staring at the computer screen and whatever book The Human happens to be reading. She likes the work desk. Occasionally, she even tries to help with projects.

    The cats have not told me what their purpose is. I am not certain they are conscious of having one. I do not know if they think they are living their best life. It is quite possible they are not, as The Human does not cook organic free-range chicken for them but buys their food at Kroger, and most of their toys are wine corks or old socks stuffed with catnip and crinkly plastic packaging. They do not get regular shipments from Chewy.com. But if purring is a sign of feline satisfaction, they seem to do a fair amount of it.

    

    Is contented optimal enough? That might be a question to ponder during a long pandemic winter.

The darkest night of a dark year

     It comes as no surprise that 2020 has been a dark and difficult year. A global pandemic and its economic fallout, a public extra-judicial execution leading to weeks of protests, gangs of armed thugs storming statehouses and threatening officials, the ugliest US election of my lifetime capped off with weeks of legal and extra-legal maneuvering by a vicious lame-duck president and threats of martial law. This year also brought the deaths of six former colleagues, three of them near my age, a former student, and two church friends. The day before Halloween, a friend died of Covid, and the list of those who have tested positive grows longer by the day. A few days ago, the son of an old friend finally succumbed to the progressive neurological illness that had been weakening him for decades. 2020 has brought a litany of losses.

    This year's winter solstice coincides with the great conjunction, the planetary lineup that has been called the Christmas Star. Many of us had hoped to head outdoors to see it, as we here in the Mid-Ohio Valley climb the Turtle Mound every year to view the solstice sunset as the Hopewell did. Unfortunately, today brought lowering clouds, rain, and what for a while sounded like ice pellets, so no stars or sunset have been visible. Today has indeed been a day of darkness, and tonight will be the longest night of the year.

    But the period of light begins growing longer tomorrow, even though our area is likely to be too cloudy for that astronomical fact to be evident. The various weather channels at least predict sun for Wednesday, with rain and snow expected to follow. And this is just December, so we can expect several more months of winter. 

Winter, of course, brings some gifts. The juncos are here, and there have been a couple of pine siskins at the feeder in the walled patio. Chickadees are omnipresent, and this downy is a regular visitor to the suet feeder.

    The major gift for all of us is the rollout of a vaccine for the novel coronavirus. People in the next county over are beginning to receive it, although our local hospital cannot manage the temperature control needed for the Pfizer and will have to wait for the less-fussy vaccine. As an under-seventy retiree, I will not be in the early groups to be vaccinated and will be spending the winter literally at home. That, too, is a gift. With no yard work to do for the next few months, I may finally sort through the last few boxes belonging to various deceased relatives, not to mention the last boxes of files and oddments brought from my campus office four years ago. The file cabinet purge and reorganization may finally be finished (just in time for another year's worth of records to need purging, no doubt). 

    Winter also brings time to just be, if we will let ourselves. That may be my next project.